I Just Want You to be Happy |
Yesterday was such a day. We really needed to find a sideboard (buffet) to go with the dining room table we bought the day before. Cindy had the idea of finding something in an antique store to match up with the new table and chairs. So, off to the local antique shops we went.
We must've gone into a half dozen stores before I spied a piece that looked perfect.
Me: Hey, honey!---Here's the perfect piece! It's the right color; It's the right length, and it has character! And, it looks very well made and in good condition!
Her: I'm sorry---it would be just right but I can't stand that silver hardware on it.
Me: We can easily replace the hardware.
Her: No, the hardware was made for the piece and anything else wouldn't look right.
Me: But......
Her: I don't think this is what we want, but we can think about it. After all, I just want you to be happy.
Your Happiness Means Everything |
A couple of hours later, I found a buffet that I knew she would like. It was perfect, I thought. stupid me
Me: Honey! Here it is! And it doesn't have any shiny hardware!
Her: Sweetie, it is almost what we want, but it is a little too low in height.
Me: But.......
Her: No, I think we will know what we want when we see it. but I just saw it! You know, Your happiness is all I care about.
At the end of the day, around 5:00, I was draggin'. We went into one last store. By this time my body and mind were shutting down. I was beginning to think about how good a nice martini would taste.
It was then she walked up behind me.
Her: I've found it.
Me: You did?
Her: Yes---come see.
I examined it. It did look good. It did have character. The price was better than I dared hope for. We bought it.
On the way home, I asked her if my input really meant anything to her.
Believe Me, I'm Happy If She's Happy! |
There you go :-). It's a match made in heaven. I hope you both have a wonderful weekend. Blessings...Mary
ReplyDeleteHahaha...oh you 2 were made for eachother. Your stories on such matters always have a familiar ring to them;)
ReplyDeleteYou make a Smile on my face.
ReplyDeleteHave a nice weekend.
Greetings Sabine
oh dear me. a (cage)match made in heaven!
ReplyDeletehahaha, I wish you good patience and a lovely weekend with your wife and the new sideboard. And next time maybe a little Martini BEFORE you buy anything else?
ReplyDeleteBlessings, greetings and a nice weekend from Inken
Thank you for your patience yesterday while we searched for the perfect piece! ♥
ReplyDeleteAww this sounds familiar. Just glad you found a piece that you're both happy with.
ReplyDeleteSure sounds like you have this thing called "marriage" down perfectly. :)
ReplyDeleteHow blessed is that?
What a diplomat she is and it looks like you are both happy.
ReplyDeleteArkansas Patti
This post shows you have really learned and understood "Womanese."
ReplyDeleteIf wife is happy then everybody is happy.
But then, I have no doubt the piece you both finally "agreed" on is the perfect one of all the choices you had considered.
Loved reading between the lines of this post.
Also, I am once again current with you recent posts. Read The Gathering, the beautiful Love poem you wrote in 2004, your post about dreams, and your delicious okra dinner (I love okra!)...
I think the dream you had about that plane flying upside down reflects the subconscious feelings you have about the new season you are in - adjusting, getting settled... after all it's a major move and I am sure that part of your insides are still in Plano, Texas...
Keep blogging. For me, this kind of on line journalling is therapeutic.
Abundant blessings to you and Cindy this weekend.
Lidj
hahaha yeah this sounds familiar! but told greatly! Thanks and i hope you don't mind your Award!
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Leontien
I was smiling too, and you know what? I just saw you both standing in the shops, having the conversation :-)))
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend
greetings
Petra
Oh may, you are both so special...just love you!!
ReplyDeleteHope Ray and I get to meet you's one day. CM
Clint, you are such a hoot. I love your domesticated manhood :)
ReplyDeleteblessings to the both of you
Patrina <")>><
Hi Clint -
ReplyDeleteYou are a hoot!