Ruminations and Reflections on My Birthday.......

Frankly, birthdays have for some time now lost their charm for me.  When I was young, I can recall telling folks that "I am seven and a half; or, I am nine and a half".  But, when one is fortunate enough to live a good life into one's sixties, one would feel pretty damn silly remarking "I am sixty-six---and a half".  Ha.

But, here I sit, contemplating the past 67 years.  The overriding feeling I have is one of thanksgiving to God for my time on earth...being able to experience life, and love, and all the emotions that go with it.  I thank Him for giving me good parents, a good gene pool, a guardian angel who has delivered me countless times from sickness, tragedy, death...I often wonder, as I give thanks, why the Big Guy wants to keep me around.  I mean, this dream could've ended at any time along the way, but it keeps on going.  And, why is it that so many others have had their lives cut short while I have been permitted to continue on my journey? 

I suppose we'll understand it better by and by.  Or, as is mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13:12: "Today we see as into a cloudy mirror.  Tomorrow it will be face to face."

Over the years I have wondered what the meaning of life is.  I have wondered what I am supposed to accomplish, what impact I am supposed to have on society, and on others.  I think I finally figured out that I am supposed to enjoy my life and look to God for leadings.  I am supposed to pray and give thanks for all I have and try to love my neighbor (just about impossible) and love God and remember to be humble and be an example for others.  If I do that, the Big Guy will say to me, "Well done, good and faithful servant".

Much love to all.

A Parable

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                                          A PARABLE

In the upper midwestern United States, in the dead of winter, an extreme blizzard roared through one February.  This was a blizzard unlike any other.  The temperature plunged to -60 degrees.

A farmer was taking refuge in his home just after sundown when he heard "thump...thump...thump" against the window over his kitchen sink.  He investigated, and found that little birds were hitting the window pane as they desperately tried to get into the lighted kitchen where there was warmth.

The farmer knew that these poor birds would die in the terrible sub-freezing weather if they could not find shelter.  So, he bundled up heavily and went outside to see if he could guide them to safety.

He opened the barn door and turned on the lights.  But try as he did, he could not attract the birds to the safety of the barn.  Perhaps the birds were afraid to enter the barn, or perhaps they were afraid of him.

Discouraged, the farmer returned to his little farmhouse.  As he removed his heavy clothing, the thought came to him that he wished he could become one of the little birds---even if just for a little while.  In that way, he could earn their trust and lead them to the barn where they would be saved.

Coins, like people, can be cast aside---and redeemed

It all started about ten years ago when I was in Richmond, VA, on a weekend business trip. On Saturday morning I decided that my recent weight gain would have to be addressed, and I vowed to begin walking briskly before work on a daily basis to boost my activity level as I dieted.

As I strode out of the motel lobby and into the parking lot, I noticed a small, shiny object against the curb. Close inspection revealed that it was a dime that someone had lost.

Without thinking, I picked it up and put it in my pocket. I didn't think about that coin again until I returned to my room and felt the small disk next to my room key in my pocket.

I looked at it closely. It must have been on the street a very short time, I reasoned. The surface was smooth, unworn by the elements. The date was recent. I began to wonder how the little coin had been lost. Perhaps someone had a hole in his pocket. Perhaps someone pulled something from her pocket and the coin happened to tumble out inadvertently.

I wondered what stories that little coin could tell. Who had lost it? To whom had it belonged over the months between its birth at the U.S. Mint and now?

Oddly, those questions seemed to stay with me all day. That night, I decided to walk once again, this time in the glow of a Virginia full moon.

Now, if you have ever walked briskly on a daily basis, you know that it can be a downright boring chore. I thought that I would actively look for coins on the sidewalk and in the parking lots that made up my walking track. Perhaps that activity would aid in my battle against the boredom of walking.

Of course, I didn't expect to actually find anything at night, but there was a good moonglow that could reflect against metal, so I was hopeful.

Yes! Fifteen minutes into my trek, I spotted a glimmer in the gloaming---a penny!

From that day to this, I have walked on a daily basis, and I have broken the drudgery of my walks by searching for coins. Over time, I have begun to see these coins as "lost souls" begging for a home. I have found them in parking lots, on sidewalks, in streets and in the most unimaginable places.

If you look for them, they are there, silently pleading to be found and given a good home.

Most of the coins are, of course, pennies. Perhaps some folks think a penny has no real value and isn't even worth the energy required to bend down and pick it up. But there are also nickels, dimes and quarters lying around, waiting to be rescued.

Over the years, I have come to refer to these coins as "orphans". I keep them in a special bank called, of course, "the orphanage". Many of the orphans are pathetic in their physical appearance---worn and weathered, thinned by the elements, perhaps half of their original thickness. Many are so worn that you cannot read the date or any of the inscriptions on them. Some look to be brand new, shiny and proud.

My orphans come from probably half the states in the contiguous United States where I have traveled. My wife, Cindy, has also caught the bug, and she avidly searches for our lost souls when she travels with me.

Our favorite place to search is the French Quarter in New Orleans. Look closely under the benches at Jackson Square. Keep your eyes on the ground on Bourbon Street. Where you find one coin, your chance of finding another nearby is excellent. Some days you will find none. Other days will yield multiple finds.

Of course, we can never spend our orphans. They are special, just like people who are lost and then miraculously found. And, like people, the true value of each of our orphans is the same, whether it is a quarter or a penny. Some are worth a worn out penny. Some are worth 25 times that much.

But, like people, they are all lost souls, kindred spirits, now found, in a warm, safe place. They, like human beings, have had the chance of the miracle of being saved. And they will never again experience the indignity of having no respect, of being lost and useless in a wealthy society.