tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post8222264613512632904..comments2024-03-14T02:51:03.898-04:00Comments on Lyrics of Love and Lore: Crush, Infatuation, Love.......Clinthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12417401195683808500noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-51244828967957945772011-09-21T02:52:36.181-04:002011-09-21T02:52:36.181-04:00No comment! lol Just kidding.
I've had crush...No comment! lol Just kidding. <br /><br />I've had crushes, infatuations BUT never a permanent love relationship. That sounds sad but it's not. I thought I had permancy in both of my marriages, but I didn't. I thought I had permanent love with a few boyfriends, but I didn't. I've had tons of fun searching for it so it's not all bad, the flip side is that to sit and analyze my past relationships I have experienced heartbreak, lonliness, and low self worth... no more of that nonsense. <br /><br />I've come to learn that the only permanent love comes from within, without a permanent internal love of self (not egotistical kind of love, just plain old love) that I will never find someone to have a "permanent" love relationship with. See I'm learning! :-)<br /><br />Have a wonderful day and now I have food for thought. Thank you.darlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04886502544010479581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-62012990749900825112011-09-19T20:46:57.670-04:002011-09-19T20:46:57.670-04:00I met my first hubby at 11yrs..it was love at firs...I met my first hubby at 11yrs..it was love at first sight..I married at nineteen, and he used his power over years to almost destroy me. I had one deep love after my marriage...and I amost felt I'd die when it just disolved..<br />Then Ray..With him it is a wonderful healthy spiritual growing love. <br />A like many people...some I love in a deeper sense of the word..But with hubby Ray it is an eros, phileo, growing to an agape love..eternal.Sr Crystal Mary Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03509227559164880311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-67830499462535513732011-09-19T20:45:54.723-04:002011-09-19T20:45:54.723-04:00Clint, I've had all 3 also. I feel like the la...Clint, I've had all 3 also. I feel like the latter is a choice you make along with the feelings. Even if you lose the 'loving feeling' when you are in a permanent relationship (ie: married) then you have to choose to continue to love your spouse, even when they're not lovable. I am a recent divorcee after almost 17 years & although it takes 2 to tango, I must say that I know how hard I tried to make it work and I MADE myself keep loving even when I thought it would be impossible.A.Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01784729967144111181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-39589148274514504762011-09-19T16:07:33.390-04:002011-09-19T16:07:33.390-04:00I met my husband when I was 17yrs, I was with a fr...I met my husband when I was 17yrs, I was with a friend when he walked into the dance hall. I said to my friend"I'm going to marry him". She said I was foolish, he came over danced a while and made a date for the week-end. After that we saw each other everynight. 2 years later we married and I was with him til death did us part. I held his hand as he slipped from me. Yesterday while I was writing about the worst films I'd seen it was 13 years to the day we held his funeral.<br />Yvonne.RHYTHM AND RHYMEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11386975261804630799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-90199434169315968242011-09-19T13:46:57.840-04:002011-09-19T13:46:57.840-04:00I wish I could find true love after the crushes an...I wish I could find true love after the crushes and infatuations. Til now my Mister Big didn't show up :-)))Novahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08191861468582115495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-38057167468139665982011-09-19T12:18:20.166-04:002011-09-19T12:18:20.166-04:00hmmm haven't thought about crushes or infatuat...hmmm haven't thought about crushes or infatuation for along while...probably did...but it's been love and commitment for a long long time...Bevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06526784820762873499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-55304752025032437002011-09-19T12:14:57.648-04:002011-09-19T12:14:57.648-04:00It would be very sad to think any adult had not ex...It would be very sad to think any adult had not experienced all of them. It is just part of what we are.Michaelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05806716677546687464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-8206394036401611852011-09-19T10:10:50.192-04:002011-09-19T10:10:50.192-04:00all of the above - sometimes with unkind outcomes ...all of the above - sometimes with unkind outcomes on all of the above...TexWisGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15510099344729038541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-5271163377719137832011-09-19T09:51:19.525-04:002011-09-19T09:51:19.525-04:00I've had all three, but longstanding, committe...I've had all three, but longstanding, committed love just gets better and better with age. Cindy, you said it beautifully.Shellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04930262815304757150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-64422520180185836262011-09-19T09:15:43.762-04:002011-09-19T09:15:43.762-04:00That's an interesting subject.
Can't say I...That's an interesting subject.<br />Can't say I personally had a 'crush' or was infatuation by/for anyone.<br />I had friends who were boys, young men but<br />when real/love happened for me, that was it!Margaret Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074619859060647600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-75282143324488133762011-09-19T08:32:55.824-04:002011-09-19T08:32:55.824-04:00Wow Cindy, that deserves dinner and flowers.
Yep...Wow Cindy, that deserves dinner and flowers.<br /> <br />Yep, I too have had crushes, infatuated, and relatively long term realationships. Crushes are frustrating for they are one sided, infatuations where commnon sense has no part in the relationship, and long term which are sooooo comfortable. The latter is the best. <br />Arkansas PattiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-23460554548527004922011-09-19T08:29:28.869-04:002011-09-19T08:29:28.869-04:00Yes to all three, but I have to admit, that young ...Yes to all three, but I have to admit, that young infatuation can really be intense. There is a reason they make 1000's of movies about it ;)Jane @ Hard Work Homesteadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02905658082120445313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3643654861670171975.post-84613605936633105892011-09-19T07:30:41.382-04:002011-09-19T07:30:41.382-04:00Yes to all the above! I have had a crush on you, b...Yes to all the above! I have had a crush on you, been infatuated with you and now have a permanent (The Lord willing) love relationship with you! <br /><br />♥Cindy Ellisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03637906385592484767noreply@blogger.com